I was thinking about oral sex, and ways to give it, ways to receive it.
Of course the standard way for a female to receive it is to lay on her back and spread her legs, and down does the partner’s face. Simple and pleasing. My problem at times is that if I don’t know what to do with me hands/arms, I can feel awkward. I have to remind myself to hold onto something above me, next to me, just spread my arms above my head or pet his head. Having this awkwardness in my mind can kind of take away from the moment. A way to add to this experience can be to add a little bondage to the situation, such as tying my arms together above me or typing them to the ends of the bed. It adds a bit of restriction and lack of control. Since I can’t move my arms, the awkwardness about what to do with my arms diminishes and more sensation in the moment is revealed. It somewhat changes it to instead of sharing, it’s more of a receiving of sensation.
For the male to receive oral it’s of course the male’s penis in the partner’s mouth. Simple enough, but I have noticed that much variation in this can occur. To begin there is the male sitting or standing there with the other kneeling below using combination of mouth, tongue and some fingers to work the penis, or laying on the floor on their back. One step in altering the situation would be to remove the fingers: either by having them hold their hands behind their back, or restraining the hands behind the back so even if they want to use their hands, they can’t. In any situation, a way of changing control, and hence changing sensation, would be for the male receiving to take the partner’s head and move it themselves, take control of the head being given and the one kneeling is now in a sense also receiving the cock into their mouth, just being sure not to gag too much in the process. This control can also be implemented if the cock-sucking is on the floor in the sense that the male receiving is on top of the other while they lay on the floor. The male can accept what is being given from the person on the floor, or they can, in a sense, “mouth-fuck” the one on the floor, going in and out as they please as if they were really having sex but with the other’s mouth. Again, watching how much the other gags in the process. And also, this situation can be changed one more way by having the one on the floor restrained during the process so it is harder for them to push the top one away when they start to gag, but the top one then has to watch more than the other way since the bottom cannot convey their own situation as well. Mood and control can play into the sensuality of the moment.
So this was just a couple ways basic bondage can be “tied” into the bedroom for those who don’t fully use bondage in the bedroom.
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