So I received a direct message the other day on Twitter in response to my tweet asking people to give me some blogging topics. The most hits I’ve had on my blog were due to my sexual frustration post, so I thought I might find a way to continue that by having people ask me questions about sex. Whether it be personal questions they’d like answered about their own life/issues, or questions directed towards curiosities about mine. Honestly? I’m open for anything. I’m a bluntly honest person, so if you want to know – just ask.
As of now, I have not requested permission to use this person’s name or Twitter handle, so I’ll refrain from doing so until I receive an answer. Now, on to the questions.
1. What sexual activity would you never do?
I can honestly say there are not a lot of activities I would never do, I’m a pretty open person when it comes to that three letter word sex. Well, I guess there’s the obvious things like, I probably would never perform a Rusty Trombone or participate in a Hot Carl. Sorry kids, but I’m not a porn star. I’m not completely shut off to trying new things though. People fear what they do not know. I cannot count how many people I’ve talked to that you mention the slightest thing, like anal sex, and they become completely turned off and disgusted. But yet, they’ve never actually tried it. I love trying new things. But there are also rules that I have about doing so.
Obviously, I’m not going to want to do things that are harmful to myself or others. Second, I typically only try new things with people who I’ve been with sexually for a decent amount of time and have grown comfortable with. Sex is sex. There are lots of embarrassing things that can happen. Especially when you are doing something you’ve never done before. God knows, no one wants to try anal sex for the first time with a stranger and then accidentally fart or worse… It makes for a really awkward situation. Whereas, if you know the person, you can just laugh it off. Our bodies are unpredictable, therefore comfort is essential.
That is what is fun about sex though! It’s always unpredictable. It leaves room for exploration and all sorts of fun things that may turn out disastrous and be cause for several laughs later, or you just may have the best orgasm of your life. I’m a firm believer in being open to trying new things for that reason. When I was younger, I was terrified of sexual exploration – but once I started, I couldn’t stop.
You’re goal: try something new with your partner tonight. Perhaps anal sex for the first time, just make sure you have some sort of lubricant, new position, some role-playing, etc. Or maybe even try something as simple as slipping some “lube cubes” (basically like ice cubes, except for it is lube instead of water) in your vagina before intercourse. Just have an open mind, have fun, and be safe!
2. What’s your biggest turn-on?
Oooh. That is a hard question – pun intended. I don’t really have one specific thing that really just gets me going. It’s been different with each partner I’ve had, just depending on their level of experience or comfort. It also depends on what kind of ”randy” mood I’m in. There are a few good ol’ standby’s though! I’m definitely an ear and neck person. If you breathe lightly or bite my ear or kiss my neck, it will make my hair stand on end. I’m also one of those crazy girls that likes to get a bit rough. I like getting man handled, I’m not going to lie. I also like assuming control so I can do a bit of man handling myself, haha.
Now here is an odd one for you. Odd and completely 100% honest! I’m a big fan of blow jobs. I never used to be. In fact, I used to hate them. I would DREAD the times I would have to give one. But within the last few years, I actually found myself starting to like them. I like having all the power. I like being able to tease and control the rate at which my partner orgasms. Perhaps it’s because I’m a bit of a control freak at heart. Or perhaps I’m just weird. What I do know, is that fans of giving blow jobs are rarities. All the same, it actually turns me on. The whole process, start to finish, turns me on. Knowing that my partner is enjoying something I’m doing solely for their benefit and hearing them confirm that enjoyment seriously gets me going. Call me odd, call me weird, but it’s the honest to god truth – I get horny over blow jobs.
Well, that is all for now my friends. I hope that I was able to entertain you with my sexual honesty and brash answers. If you have any sex related issues/questions/advice you would like me to blog about, please feel free to DM or tweet me on Twitter, message me on Facebook, or email me at kristina.h.martin@gmail.com
Ta-ta for now!
k.
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