Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Sleeping or Having Sex?

How often do you prefer to sleep rather than have sex with your partner? If you are newly married, you would probably say that you just cannot take your hands off each other all night long. As the time goes by, especially when children appear, the tiredness seem to overwhelm everything else and all you can think of is to get in bed and fall asleep.

We always had high libidos and could have sex like three times a day, but after the birth of my second child, there were often times, when I was continuously sleep deprived and bed was a place to have at least some rest. It was the time when I first faced the problem of choosing between sleep and sex. It was not that I did not want to have sex, but the exhaustion of caring for the child and other work.

How can you return your sex life in this situation? At some point you just have to say to yourself that you will have sex no matter how tired you are. This does not mean that you should force yourself to have sex with your partner, but you just start having sex even if you do not feel like doing anything. That worked for me.

My sex tip of the day is: when you are lying in your bed and think about falling asleep, cuddle with your beloved one and make him feel good, and this may turn you on and sleep won’t be your tiredness won’t be so bad.  , you will have a sound sleep shortly after sex.

[Via http://marriagesextips.wordpress.com]

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