THE DANGERS OF 'HOOKING UP' PART I

From Focus on The Family

Key points :

• Dopamine -A Natural neurotransmitter chemical high secreted by  our brain -an excitant.

• Dopamine rewards you for any exciting activities ,so it would work for whatever excites you ,Sex,driving fast,drugs,etc…

• But we end up chasing the Dopamine high in sex and not the relationship!

• Dopamine also works as a natural-bonding chemical -For Relationships.

How it works :

• When you drive fast ,dopamine is secreted making you want to drive faster in order to repeat that behavior and after a while you began to consider driving fast as normal,because the connection in your brain has been strengthened for that ,without considering the consequences.

How it works for Sex:

• People that are having casual sexual relationship are robbing this mechanism of its function,changing it and the ability to bond is forever influenced.

Bonding between Human:

• People with multiple past relationships before they marry are more likely to divorce because they re ability to connect has been damaged and they often don’t bond as well.

• The high divorce rate is maybe related to that loss of that mechanism of bonding,connect which is a vital part of what we are as Human beings.

• Teens Biology is quite high in Dopamine,as if it was given to them to help prepare for new adventures ahead.
• Society,Scientists, Evolutionists,Intellectuals have been telling us for the last decades that we should just do it ! Its a normal thing to do as we feel like it .

• But ‘research ‘ shows that Human beings are designed to have one partner for life! Totally the opposite conclusion of what’s being taught.

• If you consider sex as just as physical activity then to protect yourselves would be : condom,pills etc…

• But if you consider sex as more than physical,but emotional then to how to do protect yourself .

• Girls are 3 times more likely to be depressed than boys -2x- but boys 8 tx more likely to commit suicide!

• Sex is not only a physical act but one that involves the whole person.

• Definition of Sex : Not just vaginal penetration ,but any activity that stimulates you to arouse you for sexual satisfaction,whether alone or with someone else.

• Mind and Body are involved!

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