Sunday, November 15, 2009

Hug like you mean it

Brewster Rockit, by Tim Rickard

If you want to be a better lover, then stop thinking about how to give good head and start thinking about how to give good hugs.

Never underestimate the power and need for a hug. A genuine hug, with no ’sexy strings’ attached, can do wonders for your relationship. Our tips for a good hug with your partner:

  • Give your whole attention to the hug. (That is, don’t do a ‘grab and run’ as you’re heading out the door.)
  • Really wrap both arms around and hold firmly (but not too tightly!).
  • Be spontaneous with the hug as well as intuitive.
  • To really connect, hold the hug for at least one or two seconds longer than you would normally do it.
  • Release gently. You want to ease out of the embrace rather than have your partner feel that you are ‘done’ with it. (As though it’s something you can now check off your list!)
  • Aim to hug many times more often than you aim to have sex.
  • Hug for no good reason other than that it feels good!

This feel good Free Hugs Campaign YouTube classic has been viewed over 50 million times! Even just watching the hugging gives you a feel good rush

If you’ve had trouble giving hugs in the past, then you can go here for instructions on how to give a good hug.

And you can go to GoComics for more comic strips about hugs!

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